At the age of 49, Jennifer Lopez has faced her share of heartbreaks, including three marriages that didn't last—her unions with Ojani Noa, Cris Judd, and Marc Anthony. In a candid interview with People, the iconic actress reflects on her past relationships and reveals the tough lessons she's learned along the way. J.Lo admits that she had to confront the uncomfortable truth that the problem wasn't always with her partners—it was often with her.

"I was done blaming other people—he did this or he did that—and I said to myself, no, it’s me," she explained. Jennifer also shared that working with a therapist was crucial in helping her understand what it takes to have a successful relationship. "Until I could really learn to be happy on my own and love myself, these relationships were never going to work out, no matter what. That was a big turning point for me," she said with clarity and honesty.

Rediscovering Herself: A Journey of Self-Reflection

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Jennifer recalls a pivotal moment when she began questioning why her past relationships didn't flourish. She realized that her fear of being alone played a significant role. "I grew up sharing a bed with my sisters from the time I was born, [and then] it was one boyfriend, and then another, and then a husband, and [so on], and I realized you’ve never been alone," she explained. "I knew there was something going on that I did not understand. It was like I was running from myself without even realizing it."

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Emerging from the Darkness

Once Jennifer identified the root of her issues, she was able to navigate through what she refers to as "the dark forest"—a metaphor for a challenging period in her life. In 2017, she embarked on a new journey with her then-new beau, Alex Rodriguez. She admitted that this relationship felt different and healthier than any she'd had before.

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A New Chapter with Alex Rodriguez

"It wasn’t until I met Alex that I felt like, 'Okay, I can be in a relationship again,'" she said. "Everything feels healthy and different. We bring something to each other’s lives that is profound, good, and healthy." Jennifer's words reflect a newfound sense of balance and fulfillment in her life, showing that personal growth can lead to healthier, more meaningful connections.